My guru, HDH Bhagawan Nithyananda Paramashivam, who is a fountain of powerful cognitions,  gave a divine message in one of his daily satsang that resonates deeply. We all seek love, just love. However, we misconstrue what love truly is. When young, we believe that the body is the recipient of love, but the body only gets attention. As you get older you realise that it is the being that gets love and the body only gets attention. The body cannot feel love, it is only the being that feels love. In this misperception, we focus on our body until nearly the end, therefore we miss the opportunity to truly get love. We must shift the focus from the body to the being to feel the enormity of love and this is one of the major keys to wellbeing.